A guy once told me that a man can get off jerking off with a coldcut. Then there is the whole apple pie incident in 'American Pie'. So the way to get a man off isn't that difficult...or is it? Many men will tell you that any head is better than no head, but those that have had bad head or bleh head will inform you that they'd just rather not get it at all. Those are generally the ones that tell you how hard it is for them to get off when a woman decides to use her mouth as a means to make his toes curl. And really it is very simple. Much more so than it seems. smile.gif
First things first....forget what you see in porns. Sure it LOOKS good...but it isn't that great. Look to each man as something new and exciting to learn, because that's just what he is.
When you have a man with you, and he knows that some sort of sexual contact is going to be had, he's going to be excited. But any man will tell you that it is nice for a woman to take the reigns every now and again. So, touch him. Give him a slight hint of what you'll be doing for him that night. Maybe it will be a whispered hint...maybe it'll be your head following your hands to his lap. But before he rips his clothes off, while you are kneeling in front of him, look right up his body, chances are you'll find him STARING right at you. Touch him, be naughty or even a little wicked. Nip the fly with your teeth the whole time you are looking at him. Touch him through the fabric. Rub him and watch your hands as you slowly unfasten his pants. And as they slide down, look at his dick. It's really an amazing thing. They come in so many shapes and sizes and curves. And when you think of it, when this man has sex with you, it pleases you in a way unlike you can. So touch it, look at it, and know that you want to taste it...tease it. You have to enjoy what you do to really do a good job. And knowing just how much he loves this and appreciates it, is enough for some women to get them to enjoy it.
Look back up to him, and he's more than likely still staring at you, but as is obvious he's excited by what you are doing. So, move your mouth closer, tease him with the probability. Watch him, don't tease him too long, just hint at what's to come as if he didn't already know. Move your tongue out to the tip and flick it. Then do it again, only this time, slowly swirl your tongue around the tip in a small circle. Press his dick up against his stomach and trail your bottom lip up to the tip, then kiss the tip of it. Slide your lips down just the head, be careful not to apply too much pressure or teeth.
When he's pressing himself deeper into your mouth, start to slowly suck him in further. You don't want to move too fast because it is dry along the shaft. Keep your hands at the base of his dick for right now, don't start moving them yet. Let him savour the sensation of your mouth on him. As you move your head slowly up and down his shaft, wetting him, don't forget to use your tongue. Wriggle and writhe it and undulate it against him. Swirl the head when you get there, and stroke the shaft when you move further down. Now with one hand start caressing his balls. Not hard, don't forget that they are fragile.
By this time he should be showing some signs of pleasure, either through a little vocal noise or his hips moving, or his hands gripping either your hair or your shoulder. As he starts to move against you slightly, or getting harder, start to move your hand in time with your lips. Making sure you leave enough wetness to allow your hand to glide smoothly over his dick.
Now continue to do this and keep steady. Don't get too impatient and go too fast, because it can kill it. Don't go too slow because it can frustrate him. Use his body and his voice as a gauge. Don't forget to keep pay attention to his dick too. Feel it swell. Feel it pulse. And as it gets harder and pulses harder, he's getting closer to his orgasm. Now as he gets closer, you want to speed up, but RIGHT before he hits that crucial moment, you want to slow down. Suck on him a little harder, move your tongue more purposefully against him. Move your jaws to move draw him in and push him out. Once he reaches his orgasm, which you'll know because his dick will be REALLY hard and his voice and breathing will be different, you can either allow it to fly or you can move down his dick as far as you can and start to move your throat against him, swallowing it all down, coaxing more out.
Generally at this point, he's a little shakey and VERY sensitive so don't play hard, lighten up. Lick his dick clean of what's left. Lightly stroke him still. Press small smooches to it. Kiss your way up his stomach and cuddle him. Because though he is capable of rolling over and going right to sleep, he'll enjoy the ability to just touch you. Think of it as his quiet way of saying thanks.
One thing to note though....throughout all of this...it's truly your lovers signals that should clue you into what to do next or if something is right or not. The more you get to know your lover, the better you'll do. So practice makes perfect.
Well, he normally is hard on himself.. I mean.. that's how 'it' is done, no? ... I mean, if you really want him to write an article like the one above, perhaps "sole adventures of Alexander Fyst" would be appropriate... or perhaps "How To Deal Following the Five Knuckle Shuffle"... Then, there's the highly favored one (by Thrash himself) "Dress-Up with Sandy"
