Just like,Ive never really gone to school and i dont know many people.I jokingly flirty with some of the girls at work but theres a few who id actually Like to go out with who dont have boyfriends,Im always really nice and Stuff and help them out.I compliment them alot and stuff,God i dont know........Sould i just ask one out to a movie like its no big deal or what?Will some of the ladies help me out on how to seriously pickup on a woman?
Ignore them for as long as possible until a common ground is mentioned, this must be done correctly, no quick eye contact, no signals, just a stone wall. Go about your thing and dont be obvious, if they sense your plan theyll counter it early and wait for your move. This will get they're attention because theyll be wondering about you, which is important. Just wadling up and introducing yourself is way too up front, you need to... slide it in (wanker likes puns). People are more perceptive then most think, especially the females, and if the she isnt a total idiot, shell notice you right away and put you on the mental back burner until they can categorize you and find out who you are. (No matter how it sounds, its how it happens). Dont worry about looks, if they're going to judge you on looks, chances are shes going to come with baggage. When meeting a girl for the first time, usually a slight love hate relationship works best, but it shows the other that you can "play ball" so to speak. Just my experiences, all chicks are different, and most have baggage.
*Wankers remains single because female baggage almost got him killed*
Yeah, I liked the saying Hi idea a touch better. Especially if they know my name, then it'd just be a nice way to start my day, or continue it, or end it....whichever happens first.
Ive since seen the girl a few times and while i coud of,Ive never iniciated a conversation or anyting like that.Looks like so far ive punked out.....Sorry guys.I'll keep you posted.
"FoRgOtT3N" wrote ... Ive since seen the girl a few times and while i coud of,Ive never iniciated a conversation or anyting like that.Looks like so far ive punked out.....Sorry guys.I'll keep you posted.
It's a hard thing to do, man. The problem is, you're already emotionally invested in this girl and are worrying about the "what if's."
"What if I get rejected?"
As soon as that thought slips into your head, you're screwed!
Beyond not letting yourself get emotionally invested in someone so quickly, try simply talking with more girls you're not immediately attracted to. Learn how to talk with them and get more comfortable with the opposite sex. Once you can do this, trying to strike up conversation with someone you are immediately attracted to won't be as wrecking... hopefully.
Yeah,THats true.I am afraid of rejection and also of being made an ass of.because this girl is connected to almost everyone i work with,ANd i know how women talk....Id be the laughing stock of my work place...Cause like 3 people i work with ALSO works over there with her.....Oh well......Im not beating myself up about it.
Dude, this is how you do it: 1: you lure her to help you load furniture on a truck coz you have a broken arm. You whack her with the cast to knock her out coz your arm really isnt broken. 2: You take her home and keep her in a pit in your base ment. The pit needs to be prepared earlier. 3: You give her lotion to rub on her skin, you talk to her... "If she doesnt rub the lotion on her skin, she gets the hose again".
Hey presto, instant girlfriend with super soft skin.
"Lusive" wrote ... Yeah no "I love you's" those are SUPER bad this soon. She'll either flip out, or she'll go "AWW!" and never take you seriously again.
Thats not always true. I don't mind it. as long as he means it.
It's kind of sexy too sometimes, espesh if he says it all deep and sexy.....Like in the middle if sex.. now thats hot...OK.. I'm gunna shut up now.
No no, I love yous are good. But NOT THIS soon in the game, he's not even asked her out yet. If he tells her he loves her, she'll either think he's daft or that he's crazy. Either way won't be good. I love yous later is awesome though.
