I'm late to the game, but I wanted to address this so that I didn't feel like a complete dick for posting in your thread about tiny strippers.
lubybunny87 wrote ... I'm a complete asshole and helped someone I know cheat on their girlfriend.
First off, the moral decision was his, not yours. You can't be an asshole in a situation where there was no moral balancing point for you. If you hadn't known he was with someone, there wouldn't even be a dilemma, right?
lubybunny87 wrote ... All we did was make out a couple times, Not like we had sex or anything, But still cheating is cheating...
Unless you had a boyfriend at the time, you weren't cheating on anyone. The fact that you were on the receiving end of his affections implicates you in no way; socially, you had no responsibilities to the girl he was dating at the time. *HE* had responsibilities, but he chose to ignore them.
lubybunny87 wrote ... I don't get how I let things like this happen, stupid mistake yes. But it also hurt someone a whole lot, and I hate being the reason that they are hurting, at least part of the reason.
The reason it hurt the girl wasn't because of anything YOU did... it had everything to do with what HE did. Frankly, if they were already having problems, he was probably doing more to hurt her already than just giving you some kisses.
In conclusion: just enjoy it when people want to make out with you!
Who is this girl who wasn't aware of the douchebag thing?? I been away too long.
Anyway Luby, I agree with Lusive. Feel bad for a while, don't forget it, and just don't let it happen again. Having been cheated on, I can attest that that girl might spend time daydreaming about hitting you in the face with a tire iron. Although you just kissed him, so it's not really a huge deal. If she ever confronts you just be like "Well he wanted to do more but I stopped him."
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Oddly enough, there was another girl on the board where I met Luby who we thought was an alias ... (maybe I'll quote or link some shit later), and, after a letter showed up at her house, it was determined that she was, in fact, real ...