I'm a complete asshole and helped someone I know cheat on their girlfriend.
I feel like shit and everything. But he told her today So I guess that's better. I don't know. he just kind of kissed me the one day. and Ugh. We hung out a couple times after that, and he still just wanted to kiss me.. Him and his girl have been having problems and he's always kind of liked me, And I'm attracted to him. I'd never want to date him though, I know how he is.. He cheating on his last gf with the girl he's currently with. So I know how he is. And would never want to date him...
I just feel like complete shit though. I knew it was wrong, and I did nothing to stop it. I mean I asked him about it, I was like wtf are you doing? and he kind of didn't want to say anything But I pretty much just made him talk about it by asking... I was like wtf are you doing? he was like I don't know, I know what I'm doing is wrong. and blah blah...
All we did was make out a couple times, Not like we had sex or anything, But still cheating is cheating...
I don't get how I let things like this happen, stupid mistake yes. But it also hurt someone a whole lot, and I hate being the reason that they are hurting, atleast part of the reason. I also work with the kid. so I don't know.
Honestly, chalk it up to a mistake. And the only reason why I say mistake is because your reaction is one of bad feelings. Truly, it's his decision to respect his woman and his relationship and if he can't do that, then that truly IS his problem. I'm not suggesting that you fuck around with everyone, involved or not. I'm just saying that since you feel bad, remember this time and how you felt and don't do it again. *shrugs* But don't go sweating about it now. Tell him what happened between you was a mistake and that it won't occur again. And if he gives you grief, be glad you were rid of him before anything worse happened.
