Joined: Thu Dec 08 2005, 08:27pm
Location: Witness Protection Program
Posts: 390
I agree 110% with Hailey on this one. Who says shit like that? He wants a break to go and sow his wild oats and if that doesn't pan out he knows you will be waiting with open arms. Fuck that shit. You seem like a very sweet person and deserve better. DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS.
He cannot miss you because you are so busy trying to get back in his ass. He wasn't ever attracted to you because you clung to him, he was attracted to you before that happened. Most guys cannot stand it if a woman clings to their nutsack constantly. And you not letting this chill and be independent of him is not helping your case any. GO OUT AND HAVE FUN. Don't go around screwing everyone, unless that's your style. Just go out and be busy and have a life outside of him. YOU are wasting your life waiting on him, because I can BET you that he's not wasting any of his waiting for you.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about... 17months or so..
and for the past.. 4-6 months.. He's been telling me his feelings have changed.. He still loves and cares about me.. Just isn't sure if he really wants the whole long relationship deal anymore. So.. we are on a break so he can think about his feelings without me being around to cloud them and what not...
So I'm sitting here waiting for the next however long this break is, Just to probably get hurt again.. I'm not sure, this is all confusing to me. It is my first long relationship as well, But I'm in no hurry for it to end. Stuff like this to me, is just like friendships. The only difference, Is your more close to the person than you are to than anyone else. And you don't go around and be that close with others.