I've known Pete since elementry school. We played sports together, macked on girls, and are roommates now. He's never made any passes at me or ever acted like he was interested in guys, but I'm starting to wonder if he's hiding a big secret.
The reason I say this is because he has dated alot of women, but rarly has sex. I mean he has had sex before but its rare. This dude can go months without having it. My opinion has always been that he's not good with the ladies in the sexual department or that he was really afraid of getting a girl preganant or getting a disease.
Now, Im starting to think my dude must be a homo. He's been dating this girl named Tiana for over a year now. This girl is fine. I've had a couple of fantasies about her myself. I figured that now he was in a serious relationship with this girl, he was getting some. When I ask him, he always brags about how great the sex is and how hot she is in bed.
But the other day when Tiana was at our place waiting for Brad to get off work, she asked me if she could get my advice in confidence. I told her as long as she wasnt cheating on my boy, then sure. She asked me if Brad had said anything about her being bad in bed. I was like, no why would he say something like that. She said because he never wants to have sex and when she tries to talk to him about it he gets mad. She said shed tried all kinds of stuff, lingerie, sex toys, and that still he never wants to have sex.
Of course my first reaction was to tell her she could come to my room, but I would never do that because thats my boy. I didn't know what to tell the girl but I told her Id try to find out what the problem was. Should I confront him about this and if so would he even tell me if he was gay? I mean what else could be the problem?
Not being a sex fiend doesn't make you gay. Your "friend" is being a douchebag. I think it's commendable that you don't think you have to have sex to have a lasting relationship. But still, if you're going to take the perspective of your story off yourself, you might want to take your name out of it. Just for future reference.
