From what I can tell, some take it that you condoned "bella's" behavior when it all came about, when you took up for her. I understand why you say you did. They do not. There are some that feel so strongly about something and were hushed. They're a walking time bomb, unable to speak their mind. You understand this, right?
I'm just trying to get everyone to make some sense out of this.. not trying to bash or point fingers.
I am personally sick of all the heartache that is going on here.
well, as the admin it was 8 people bashing one... ......who was'nt fighting back...and the admittance of guilt came from another sorce. .....none of this was ever my business.
how can I condone, what did'nt happen at methology? .....I don't know whats going on outside oof there.....I read what goes on INSIDE....and there was'nt shit.
You are there to HELP others. When you help people, they have a tendency to look to you for support and guidance in more than just one situation. You've been friends with them for a very long time, no?
I had to loose a few to save several. ........I had to shut my board down 2x to bust up the terrible confidences betrayed.... ....that had nothing to do with bella
If I were to come to you and tell you I wanted to try meth just one time. What would you tell me? Learning from you what I have, I am pretty sure you would tell me NO!
But why? It can't be that bad. It hasn't hurt me personally yet. Nor have I seen its affects on anyone at my house.
You still tell me NO! It is no good. It will destroy your life!
But I can't see how something so tiny can destroy my life. ...
With that being said...
Some people knew what "bella" had done. They were informed. They knew she was doing wrong. She had also hurt them. They had first hand knowledge. They tried to tell that she was bad. No one wanted to listen.
This is how you would feel if you tried to plead with someone not to try meth .. but they didn't listen.