So as a guy,Of course when i see hot chicks i immediately think of how i want to ride that fucking ass ALL NIGHT LONG and do every filthy thing in the book to them,Its natural as im a straight male......BUT!!!
I know thats just a fantasy and that doesnt happen in real life,In real life my ideal date would be Quite honestly to go to a girls appartment,Watch a cheesy romantic movie with ashton kutchner laying on her couch just holding each other......Just being close,You know?Around gilrs i like im really quite shy and find it difficult to say the things i really want to.....
My question is,Do you think women prefer guys that are sorta sensitive or would women prefer a guy who,I dunno,Isnt sensitive and whatever?I guess what im asking is that is this a good quality of mine or a bad one?that with girls i really want to get to know i dont just want to fuck and run,But really be their friend and know them and just be near them,Kissing,Hugging,Just lying in bed holding each other......God i want that!
...forgotten, don't sweat the small stuff. she said yes? she'll go with you?....GO! sure, ask her to pick you up! in this case, not lame, but don't make her pay to get in! these days...offer her gas money, that would be considerate. ...and if you can get some flowers dude, it will help.
YOu really think flowers?Cause like,Maybe she still thinks of me as a friend,You know?And i dont want to go overboard saying or doing somthing considered "romantic" and fuck it all over.....You know?Im also really insecure about it all too,I keep expecting her to ask if she can bring her boyfriend along or something.....I know how stupid that sounds but shit,I just wish i KNEW she liked me in a boyfriend way,You know?
but im scared,Scared of rejection.....But in the back of my mind i fully expect it,But theres still just that lingering Immature unrealistic thought of how i'll give her flowers and say i want to be her boyfirend and she'll fall for me and we'll kiss passionatly and be together forever and see each other everyday and live a fairy tale life......You know?THATS whats causing my insecurities.....That thought of what if,But that same thought of what if is what made me ask for her number and continue try try with her......Shit i gotta call her and im getting nervous.....
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"WiseMasterYoda" wrote ... Sprinkle some Miracle-Grow on your balls
Okay, okay. *tries to be serious*
I'm really torn here. Flowers might be nice if she already likes you, BUT giving a gift at the wrong time might make you look like a desperate suck-up. But back on the first hand, if she's a real girly-girl, flowers will make her weak in the knees. Unless.... Bah! I'm even overanalysing my analysis.
Okay, here's a simple assignment for you, while you're on you're little date.
Step 1: Get your arm around her as casually as possible. Don't try to be smooth, just do it like you two have been best friends all your lives. If she snuggles up to you, you're gold. If not, take it slow.
Step 1 and a half: If you really need to be told, genius, you should spend this period flirting with her sporatically, building up a bit of sexual tension, and generally acting interested but not too interested.
Step 2: When you get a long, quiet moment with her in your arm, play gently with the ends of her hair. If she doesn't take well to this, back up a bit.
Step 3: If she responds well to #2, kiss her. Don't ask permission, don't pussyfoot around, just do it. Trust me on this.
I really appreciate the advice.I called her just a bit ago and asked what time she wanted to go and IF she still wanted to go...and for the ride which im still kinda embaresed about but im sure she doesnt mind...We'll just SEE if she calls back,Cause before this ive asked her to do things a buncha times and shes asked me to do stuff but we always end up seeming to have to work and i HATE IT,I dont want to take it as she doesnt like me but im also not going to keep calling and making a fool of myself,If she doesnt call me for the fair then im most likely going to just stop trying,I dont work with her anymore and if she says she's busy now or something then imma forget it......**BUT I REALLY HOPE SHE CALLS BACK!!!!**
I think flowers work (they do for me) for any occasion. .....it's a date if you asked her to the fair and she said yes, it's that simple. the flower could be anything from a gift to a token of your appriciation for going with you. ....no need to get more than one, it will sit in the car while you are at the fair. just get one rose, or one carnation... you will be touching at the fair from sitting together on rides and stuff, and she knows it .......so shes open to you. if she did'nt want to be near you she would have said no. I would'nt glomp her....soak up her nearness and if it seems right, give her a hug when she brings you home.
yeah,She didnt call me back tonight.....Maybe she's just trying to let me down easily or not be mean or something?She definately NOT the type of girl to out right just diss me and crush my feelings......Maybe she's just trying to avoid me or something....How long should i wait to call her back?the fairs tomorrow night,Im sure she'll call back tomorrow...Right?......Right?Shit,I dont know....I really want to see her again but.....Oh fuck,Im not posting in this thread again till some type of real news happens....
Well i just got off work early since it was super slow,Its 1:00 now....I called her yesterday and left a message of how if she still wanted to go then it starts at 5 and We could go around 6?She hasnt called me back,i REFUSE to be some needy despirate guy who keeps calling and refuses to see the truth,if she doesnt call back i'll just most likely accept that things didnt work out,It really never went anywhere anyway.
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OR ...
... just "happen by", order a "cola to go" and if you cross her path just say 'hi', note your cola and you 'have to go', and say, 'btw, last chance for the fair, lemmie know SOON' on your way out,
I dunno....I really dont want to go back to cheeseburgers,The managers a fucking idiot and i dont wanna see him.She does work all day tomorrow and i'll be RIGHT across from her just staring at her all day most likely.....But i tried,and if shes not interested then im not going to push,if she wants then she can always call me or come over and see ME.Im not trying to play hard to get,Its just ive tried ALOT and nothing ever really happened....Its over before it began.But this whole thing did give me alot of confidence and the knowledge that i AM good enough and if i wanna ask a girl out then i fucking WILL from now on!Theres been like 3 girls before this that i liked but never asked out!Im so lame.
No,Actually im not.Theres NO written rule that guys HAVE to ask the girl out,If she was that interested she'd call me or something.She HASNT.I dont work with her anymore and i dont see her.....I wish things would have turned out differently but it DIDNT.Its not hte end of the world.
